informal letter to the victim of depression

                                                                                               No 50,JLN KEMULIAAN
                                                                                               TAMAN UNIVERSITI,
                                                                                                81300,SKUDAI,
                                                                                                JOHOR BAHRU.
                                                                                                           
                                                                                                              
                                                                                                 August 8, 2011.


Dear my friend,
          How are you my friend?I hope you are fine.Don't worry about depression that you face day by day.As human being,we have given a test by god.Every test we receive,we can solve because god only give a test that we can face.We must face the problem with courage and hardly.As we know,everyone have a problem and we cannot run from the problem.
         I am here are going to help you because long time ago I also live in depression but today the situation never same like before.My life get even better.The things you must to do now is to get the support from the people to help you to break out the chain of depression.I have some way to end this misery and help you to open a new book and I hope you using this way to solve your problem in depression.
        Firsly,you must have intention to change thinking about your life.You must always thinking positive public opinion because some people look at you negative.In this situation,you must let the people and do your work as what you want to do and take right decision.You must thinking first before do the matter.
       Then,the depression will decrease day by day.You must focus on building strong,relationship with family,friends.You can draw strength and joy from these things,and it is difficult to dwell on yourself when you are building with other.Recently,you must focus on staying active doing things you love.All you have in this life is time and what you do with it.Focus on your response,not event and outcomes.You cannot control what happen,but you can control what you do about it.What happen doesn't matter,all that matter is what you do.Your actions are the results of your thoughts and attitudes and those are your choice.
       However,you must focus on what you have,not what you've lost,or what you've never had at all.The positive resource state of gratitude is a powerful energy that helps us attract and create whatever we want.Focusing on what's missing is not the same as planning to acquire it.
       Lastly,you must strong to go on in your life and you don't scared because I will supported you from behind.I hope you can use ways that I have given to you and practise in your life and so that you will succes in your life and become make a good and succesful person in the world than other people.



                                                                                                        Your best friends,
                                                                                                         Hafiz b.Zaini

Power Of Time

      The cycle of human life revolves around the sun. As sun rises and sets every day, every individual wake up and sleeps every day with or without some exceptions.It is apparent that we live in time-space. Every instant of our time is like a flowing river. The moments that we share with friends, loved ones and family, once gone, cannot come back. These moments are then stored in the form of images in our brain. These images float around like the pendulum every now and then.For example, I have realized that my childhood days cannot come back again. Those times, when I used to ride hundreds of miles with a bicycle, my father first bought me. The time when I met great friends, who used to crack jokes, smile and sing a song, once I felt depressed. All such events are now, stored in my memory, in the form of images.
      As I have earlier said, our brain sees events only in the form of images. Everything revolves around our visualization of past, present and future. It is extremely difficult to make our 'pendulum of life' static. Can you not think of past or future, living in the present? Obviously, you can not.I have always lived my life with curiosity and I am curious to find out some basic answer to very simple question: what is time? I have read several theories on time but time cannot be understood generally with theories alone. Many philosophers have defined time. Newton has defined time as a dimension in which events occur in sequence, one after another. Einstein has proved that time is relative. Similarly, Kant and Leibniz have defined time as neither an event nor a thing whereas they claimed it can never be measured nor traveled.
      On similar account, Ecclesiastes defines time for everything. A time to kill, weep, cry, laugh, heal, search, tear apart, love, hate, peace, silent, embrace, build up, mourn and dance. There is time for everything according to such religion.Before making any further statement on time, one needs to understand what time is. Many a times, while speaking, we generally say, "time is money", "time is limited", and "this is not right time". I usually do not like to make such statement simply because I have not understood the time, have you?
      One simple hypothesis would be that, we live on the surface of the earth but if someone would be hanged above the surface of the earth at the equator without moving, like the static pendulum that person might never experience past, present or future. Maybe our marriage with the sun is vital for our journey with the time.
In my quest for the basic understanding of time, I have come to the conclusion that time is neither everything nor anything. Time might be totality of events as Newton has said at one point and relatively in motion as Einstein has said at other point.

Dominique Strauss-Kahn: another woman claims of affair

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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/finance/dominique-strauss-kahn/8667427/Dominique-Strauss-Kahn-another-woman-claims-of-affair.html
       This article is about the the woman named only as Marie-Victorine M., now 38, told how the former IMF chief enjoyed 'forceful lovemaking' during their clandestine trysts in Paris.

She said the affair took place in 1997, with Dominique Strauss-Kahn married at the time to current wife Anne Sinclair. The half-Spanish, half-Congolese legal consultant is the latest in a catalogue of at least six women who have confessed to a sexual relationship with the fallen banker since he was accused of raping New York hotel chambermaid Nafissatou Diallo in May. Marie-Victorine described Strauss-Kahn as having a 'huge sexual appetite' and being a 'serial manipulator of women'. But she said she was always a willing partner and he never forced her to have sex.
       The synopsis for this article is in an interview with Switzerland's L'Illustre magazine, she told how she met DSK at a socialist party meeting in Sarcelles, near Paris, 14 years ago, and ended up in bed with him later the same day."We carried on meeting in a lavish apartment in Paris that he said belonged to a friend.
"During this time, he was made a minister in the French government.
"The relationship was physically intense, but not violent. Is a man violent if he pushes you against a wall to kiss you? "Sometimes he took me forcefully, but I considered our affair more passionate than violent, and besides, everything we did was consensual."I took the whole thing very badly. I was very hurt and took a load of pills. I don't remember that episode very clearly." She also refused to confirm or deny claims by L'Illustre magazine that Strauss-Kahn had got her pregnant and that she had an abortion.Marie-Victorine, who left Paris later the same year to work as a lawyer in Los Angeles, said she was 'stunned' to hear how he had been arrested for attempted rape on May 14.Incredibly, Ms banon's mother has also told French police how she had 'brutal but consensual' sex with DSK too - in his office at OECD international trade body in Paris. Left-wing politician Anne Mansouret, 65, said the economist seduced her with the 'vulgarity of a squaddie' in the sordid sexual encounter ten years ago. Strauss-Kahn, currently on bail in New York, denies both rafts of allegations against him in the US and France, and has launched legal action against Banon in Paris for defamation.
        My opinion about the article is disagree because she allowed what the people do and too belive the man no know the man in a long time and did not know that the man is of good or evil.
        From this article,I can conclude that we need to know the origin of a person before follow him to wherever area.We cannot easily succumb person a good because we do not know the background of a person because many criminals are now taking advantage at female which is weak and did know about it.

abortion

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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/health/healthnews/8668725/Breast-cancer-screening-has-little-detectable-impact.html

       This article about breast cancer screening 'has little detectable impact'.The is a reason why I choose because I want find evidence that screnning  has led to faster falls in deaths rates from the disease.  has led to faster falls in deaths rates from the disease.
For the study, published in the British Medical Journal, falls in breast cancer death rates were compared in three pairs of similar territories: Northern Ireland to the Republic of Ireland; Sweden to Norway; and The Netherlands to Flanders in Belgium.
In the first of each pair screening was introduced 10 to 15 years earlier than in the second.
However, they found little difference between the pairs in breast cancer mortality rate falls from 1989 to 2006.
The percentage drops were as follows: Northern Ireland 29, Republic of Ireland 26; Sweden 16, Norway 24; Netherlands 25, Flanders 25
      The synopsis for this article is a improvements in treatment and healthcare systems "may be more plausible explanations" for death rate falls, they found.
Dr Karsten Juhl Jørgensen, of the Nordic Cochrane Centre in Denmark, said the paper drew similar conclusions to one he had co-authored with colleague Prof Peter Gøtzsche, published in the BMJ last year.
It found breast cancer death rates fell slower from 1997 to 2006 in areas of Denmark where screening had been introduced in 1991.
He said it was "becoming increasingly clear" that those who deserved the credit for falling death rates "are those who treat breast cancer, not those who screen healthy women".
Last year the same Nordic Cochrane Centre team claimed that 7,000 women a year in Britain were undergoing unnecessary treatment - including mastectomies - after wrongly being told they had life-threatening breast cancer.The problem is that mammograms detect both tumours and precancerous legions in milk ducts called ductal carcinoma.He believes health ministers 'seriously have to consider' dropping breast cancer screening.
       In my opinion aboust the article is agree,because "The best evidence available shows that women aged 50 to 69 who are regularly screened are less likely to die from breast cancer.
"The World Health Organisation's International Agency for Research on Cancer (IARC) estimates that there is a 35 per cent reduction in mortality from breast cancer among screened women aged 50 to 69.If this problem is take easy,it will be worse an increasingly number of patients.
       From this article,I can conclude that the we would encourage women to consider attending routine screening.